God Sent us “Two by Two”!

Our paths had to meet for reasons we may not understand; and then  “Two by Two” — AS PARTNERS, God sent us TO FULFIL A MISSION and @ that, we need some alignments & compromise!

Gone should be the days when we “do things on our own, for our own”!

Gone should be the days when all that we consider is our own feelings and disregard what & how others would feel because we assert the “SELF” that we are. Normal as it usually is, along the journey, we’re bringing with us our BACK PACKS: fully loaded with reasons why we think, act & talk the way we do — some are our strengths; and some are our weaknesses which both make us Beautiful, endowed with the image and likeness of God.

Relationships matter! It could never be true that “lone nomads” never yearned to have somebody by their side! We may not be aware, but let’s be more ALERT of such “pretences” — for more often than not, we may just be too proud to make amends but the truth of the matter is that: we’re actually in unspeakable need of acceptance and concern and approval and praises and commendations and the likes — all of which would actually give us that sense of belongingness and worth as a person. Well, this is normal & there’s nothing to be ashamed of — BUT, we may tend to become egocentric if we would yearn to receive these favours “at the expense of”, or “in disregard of” the other’s equal needs like ours.

Family is the most important relationship we should STRIVE TO WORK FOR!

Sometimes, a Husband may not understand why his wife would get mad at him when out of his anger, he already forgot to be considerate in his actuations toward their kids. In the same way, Kids may not be able to fully grasp or may resist the many things their parents want them to understand.  Sometimes too, parents may not perceive the intended meaning of where their kids are coming from with the reactions that they give.  MANY TIMES AMIDST ALL THE MISUNDERSTANDINGS, “a Wife and a Mother at the same time” could only absorb and tolerate and manage that much.  Without everybody being sensible enough, some hearts could STRIVE TO MEND  — but yearning for an answer: how would we ever BREAKTHROUGH?

“Two by two” HE MADE US “PARTNERS”! — but why You and why Me? — Only God knows!

It could never be anybody’s fault why it had to be us!

So TWO-GETHER, we should never be each other’s opponent!

Then He made us PARENTS!

It will never be easy! — it actually never is!

Individually, we both have our own PASTS. our own USED-TO-BEs. our own good and bad EXPERIENCES which explain “THE WHO THAT WE ARE TODAY!”

We may justify that HABITS & ATTITUDES throughout those years have already been something we can never do without. — But the thing is, while Jesus is sending us off at PRESENT TIME, He doesn’t want us to bring anything — not anything from our past — except A PIECE OF STICK: OUR FAITH — GOD’S ASSURANCE that He would be with us every step of the way.

God wants our YOKE to be easy as we deal “hearts-on” to the Mission that He wants us to accomplish in OUR PRESENT LIFETIME — for it’s not only us whom He declared “partners” — but the “two of us” as His partners!

HOPEFULLY, may we see eye to eye &  feel heart to heart with Him  in all HUMILITY for us to willingly GROW IN-LOVE: THE KEY that would make EACH HOME one of the DOORS OF GOD’S UNFAILING LOVE!

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6 thoughts on “God Sent us “Two by Two”!”

  1. Building a strong relationship is not an easy task. You will encounter joy,so much pain and sometimes betrayal…then asked God ,”Why Me?”It reminds me of a quote fr. laughing colours com.that says: “EVERY MAN NEEDS A WOMAN WHEN HIS LIFE IS A MESS,BECAUSE JUST LIKE THE GAME OF CHESS, THE QUEEN PROTECTS THE KING”.Even though we are 2 different persons., As partners, we become One in dealing trials in life and building a FAMILY that
    God wants us to be…I always remember…being 2-gether and believed that SOMEONE up in the sky protects us… There is No One on earth who can break or separate us.

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  2. Indeed having a partner in life entails a lot of advantages as well as disadvantages. When you’re by yourself you can do anything you want, you can go anywhere, and you can do things however you wanted it to be done. Nobody bothers you, nobody agrees or disagrees with you. But the thoughts of being alone doesn’t enthuse me at all. Yes it’s good to be alone “sometimes”, to spend time in tranquility but isn’t more thrilling to journey life’s ups and downs, twists and turns with your special someone? You can still enjoy life, the only difference is that you have someone to share your happiness, and success with, you have someone to run into when things didn’t turn your way, and you have someone whom you can pour yourself with. It may not always be “happy-together” time but it must always be “together-forever”… #COUPLES-FOR-CHRIST

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  3. I agree. I cannot live just on my own. I need someone to fill in my emptiness. That is the reason why we have friends. Together with them, you dream a dream and share that dream with them. Together you laugh, cry and enjoy life.I may not have my two-gether no matter how hard I try but I know God fills in the vacancy.

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  4. In the expression – No man is an island…. No one is self-sufficient; everyone relies on others.
    We just have to be not our own to live in this world. There are people around to love us. But not all of them. God sent them to be with us and together lived in harmony. No matter how hard trials come, there are people who want to be with you no matter what happen… family and friends!

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  5. In the expression – No man is an island…. No one is self-sufficient; everyone relies on others.
    We just have to be not our own to live in this world. There are people around to love us. But not all of them. God sent them to be with us and together lived in harmony. No matter how hard trials come, they want to be with you no matter what happen… family and friends!

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  6. Like the saying goes “It takes two to Tango.” Nobody can live alone. Real happiness can be found in the smiles, caring and love of others. Most especially, in the arms of your partner/husband. I always look for a chance of thanking God by giving me the most loving, patient and understanding husband in the whole world. He gave meaning to my life. Others say “walang forever!” but I always tell them I found my forever because God gave me my forever. We’re destined by God and we always keep in mind what priest told us in our wedding,Matthew 19:4 “What God has joined together, let no one separate.”

    So, let’s take every chance to thank God for giving these people to us because our family, friends and our partner are worth thanking for.

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